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14 Daily Habits That Contribute To Your Success

It’s hard to picture yourself making decisions that can help you live longer and achieve more in life. Feeling successful is the key to happiness as an individual. There are many daily habits or routines you could practice daily to make your life easier, keep your self-esteem at a high level, and, quite simply, enjoy a life of success.

Some people find that they can create better daily habits by writing out a plan. This strategy will only succeed if the plan’s elements are ones that you will follow each day. Keep in mind that you must be able to stick to the program over time to see results.
Think about how these tips will help you balance your competing needs and achieve your fullest potential.

CONSIDER HOW THESE DAILY HABITS CAN STEER YOU INTO SUCCESS

1. GET ENOUGH SLEEP.
One study looked at the ways that people’s habits in early life affects their success. It noted how previous studies on the subject had not considered the influence of the socio-economic status of young children and how it impacted them through life. However, this study showed people could be very successful if they are getting enough sleep in early life.
2. PRACTICE SELF-CONTROL TO FIND SUCCESS.
The same study found that good daily habits are as important as displaying self-control in early life. For example, if a 4-year-old child could learn to delay gratification, as studied by Mischel et al. in the 1960s, it could be a predictor of higher educational achievement, a higher sense of self-worth, and a more exceptional ability to deal with stress, as well as a lower risk of drug use.
3. BE POSITIVE THAT YOUR LIFE WILL GET BETTER IF YOU DO DELAY GRATIFICATION.
Another study by Casey et al. referenced in the same research found 4-year-olds tested showed less self-control in their forties. Not having self-control could lead to problems including early aging and shorter life expectancy. Also, the quality of one’s life could be less during any stage.
4. CHANGE YOUR HABITS SO YOU CAN START LIVING BETTER.
Another resource from the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases found lifestyle changes prevent diabetes and obesity. It’s not enough to want to feel better. You must be willing to commit to those good habits that are based on self-control.
5. MAKE AN EFFORT.
If you want to live better, you still have to make an effort. People who don’t want to develop health problems associated with a poor diet can do two things. They can become more active and eat better. You have to make time in your day to take a walk, ride a bike, go to the gym, or play a sport.
6. TAKE YOUR HEALTH SERIOUSLY BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE HAS THAT DUTY BUT YOU.
A good example is if your employer or social organization offers free or low-cost programs to make you successful. If your employee wellness program has free exercise classes, try asking a co-worker or a friend to go too. Save money on a gym membership and do this program as often as you can.
7. INSPIRE OTHERS TO MOTIVATE YOU.
You are more likely to set goals and meet them if other people are monitoring your progress. If you don’t think that your boss will check an assignment, you won’t do it, or at least you would pay less attention to detail. Right? If you need to get regularly checked for certain diseases, make the appointment. Ask a loved one or a friend to remind you. He or she could even go to the appointment, so you feel likely to follow up.
8. PRACTICE SHOWING YOUR GRATITUDE EVERY DAY.
This will help you live longer. This means that you take the time to acknowledge what you are thankful for. In some cases, it could mean actually taking time to thank someone for his or her contribution to your success. Start with your parents!
9. LISTEN TO YOUR BODY.
Your body has many built-in ways to help you succeed. If you ignore signs of pain, for example, a fixable problem could worsen. If you pay attention to what your body tells you, there could be time to change bad daily habits. You could also seek medical treatment to address that information.
10. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE.
It’s hard to find success in isolation. Seek out opportunities to exchange ideas with other people. They can be like-minded even if they are working on the same project as you. It’s also recommended to find people with differing views. Any view that diverges from your own ideas will undoubtedly challenge you to consider a situation or problem from different angles. People who aren’t afraid to test your ideas are your equals.
11. NEVER CONSIDER YOURSELF ABOVE OTHERS.
Success is fleeting. Anyone can succeed or fail on a daily basis. The people who find long-term happiness aren’t afraid to fail. They see each challenge as a learning opportunity and know they learn more from failure.
12. PUT OTHERS IN A POSITION TO SUCCEED AND MAKE A SIGNIFICANT CONTRIBUTION TO THE TEAM.
You will find more success by using daily habits such as bringing others along with you towards a shared goal. Four-term U.S. President Franklin Delano Roosevelt was known for having the best people in his Cabinet.
President Roosevelt surrounded himself with talent from everywhere. He used to have fireside chats with the American public over the public radio. Once, he famously said, “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” A top speechwriter on Delano’s staff coined that often-cited famous quote.
Recognize when others have more talents that can be used to solve a problem. Don’t be afraid to give credit to others and step down if you aren’t the best candidate for the task.
13. TRY TO BECOME AN EARLY BIRD.
Give yourself an earlier start to the day. This starts by going to bed early. When you wake up, eat a good meal and get started on the day’s agenda. At night, you end up feeling that you have accomplished a lot. You feel successful because you have practiced good daily habits. You feel more likely to achieve tomorrow’s goals.
14. PROTECT YOUR BODY TO PREVENT DISEASES.
It makes sense that we will find more success if we try to avoid people who make us feel bad about ourselves or stress us out. If you are going to work outside, you need to wear sunblock and prevent skin cancer. If you work a stressful job, you need to schedule breaks and vacations. Both examples are based on the premise: Please don’t expose your body to unnecessary harm. It only takes a few minutes to practice prevention each day.
ADOPT THESE DAILY HABITS, DRIVE TOWARDS SUCCESS
Each type of daily habit that we have described above is meant for your own improved health and well-being. People with good habits feel better about themselves.
People who enjoy a level of success feel healthier. Thus, they attend work more. They also take more recreation time. They feel hopeful about the future. It’s easier for them to solve problems. If they can’t solve a problem, they ask someone who can help. They enjoy the company of others, and these same people help them out when they are down.
If you can make small changes in your habits, you will feel better. It’s possible to become happier too! Help yourself feel better most of the time! You are worth it!
The alternative to good daily habits is poor habits. These will bring you down. Wrong choices will make you feel like you are less able to get through the day. Some poor habits, such as over-eating, substance abuse, and smoking, will, at a minimum, cause long-term damage to your body. This can decrease your life expectancy, which means you will have fewer years to enjoy your loved ones. Give yourself every opportunity to live a long and happy life filled with success by making good choices!
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The 7 Strengths and Habits
That Successful People Possess

There’s no secret recipe that will make you a successful person, but these seven strengths and habits can greatly increase your chances of success.
Finding and developing success within yourself can come easily when you look at the strengths and habits of other successful people. The attributes of successful people don’t develop overnight and didn’t just happen by accident — although they may make it look effortless.
Successful people continue to work on their success habits as part of a daily routine so that success becomes a way of life. Let’s walk through seven of the most important strengths and habits of successful people.
1. They have a success-driven mindset and the passion to achieve
Successful people have a strong will to succeed and achieve in life. They look forward to growth and have a deeply rooted desire to do much more than the average person. These people take action to make positive changes and move outside their comfort zone. Even when their attempts fail, they can quickly see opportunities that surround them, adjust when things go wrong and move in a new direction.
Unsuccessful people, on the other hand, feel defeated, throw their hands up in the air and give up way too soon.
2. They are self-aware and have self-confidence
Successful people face challenges with confidence and trust their skills and knowledge. Even when they don’t have the right skills or knowledge to begin with, they move forward with enthusiasm and commitment to succeed despite the odds. Successful people have a strong sense of self, which allows them to make stronger commitments. They are comfortable speaking their minds. Successful people stand up, speak out and enjoy sharing ideas and opinions.
Unsuccessful people who lack confidence are often unwilling to open up and speak up, which holds them back and causes missed opportunities.
3. They are vision-focused and achievement-oriented
Successful people create a clear vision for goals and take action toward achieving that vision, which doesn’t allow anything to stand in their way. A strong vision serves as a guideline to keep them motivated and on track to achieving their goals. They set and conquer smaller goals first and then move on to bigger and bolder benchmarks so they can hit larger targets.
Unsuccessful people are frequently unclear, unfocused and misguided, so they often waste time and money getting to their goals or even missing the targets altogether.
4. They value time wisely
Successful people are extremely productive. They value and use their time wisely and don’t allow others to take advantage of or waste their time. They create barriers around their time by adding structure and systems into their businesses, which are respected by clients and peers. They clearly understand that time is their most valuable asset.
Unsuccessful people waste time doing unproductive things that don’t allow for effective growth and give away their time too freely to others. Therefore, they create fewer income-generating opportunities.
5. They own it!
Successful people build a solid business and brand foundation that sets them apart from the competition. They are known as experts and authorities within their respective industries. They own their business and their brand, which allows them to easily maximize their avenues to success.
Unsuccessful competitors either do things like everyone else, lack a success plan to build on, or do just enough to survive.
6. They think differently than the average person
Successful people think differently. They look one step — or more — into the future and see opportunities everywhere. They think outside the box and come up with creative and innovative ways of doing business.
Unsuccessful people follow the crowd or wait to copy other people’s ideas, so they usually remain one step behind the competition.
7. They love what they do
Successful people don’t think of work as work. They take pleasure in their business and love what they do for a living. This gives them a sense of achievement and happiness that fulfills their definition of success.
Unsuccessful people see work as survival, and they work simply to earn a living. Most don’t enjoy what they do for a living and consider what they do to be a J-O-B.
Debbie Allen
Speaker, Business Mentor & Author
November 6, 2019 
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Promise Yourself These 8 Things For A Happy Life

BY DOMONIQUE BERTOLUCCI      APRIL 8, 2015 

So many people look outside themselves for ways to feel good on the inside. They think self-confidence will come from doing this, having that or looking a certain way. The reality is that although these people are the only ones who can build their own confidence, the way they think and act is doing nothing but tearing it down.

The first time I realized this was in my mid-20s, when I had my quarter-life crisis. My life looked great on paper: well-paying job, cool car, great clothes, fun holidays. Despite all this, I really wasn’t happy.

Feeling good about who you are and the life you live shouldn’t depend on a specific outcome, yet all too often people put themselves down or beat themselves up because they haven’t done this or got that. Your confidence shouldn’t be dependent on the goals you’ve achieved, nor should it be dependent on the feedback you get from others, your dress size or the amount in your bank account.

But if your self-confidence isn’t based on what you’ve got or what you’ve done, how do you build and maintain it?

The answer is deceptively simple. Make the commitment to treat yourself with the same kindness you show the other important people in your life.

The key to feeling good about who you are and the life you live is built on this pact — what I call the Eight Promises, each of which is paired with a mantra to help you learn to live for yourself, not what others think about you.

1. Accept your imperfections.

I am perfectly imperfect.

There’s no such thing as perfection, yet so many people exhaust themselves and erode their self-confidence in pursuit of it. When you accept your imperfections you recognize that you have strengths and weaknesses … and that’s OK.

2. Always do your best.

I always do my best, and my best is always good enough.

When you set impossible goals that you have no real chance of achieving, you’re setting yourself up for failure before you begin. When you focus on always doing your best, you’re able to have much more realistic expectations of yourself and what you can achieve.

3. Stop comparing yourself to others.

I have no need to see myself as more or less than anyone else.

Whether it’s your neighbors, celebrities or the people you see on reality TV, comparing yourself to others will usually leave you feeling inadequate. When you stop comparing yourself to others, the only person you’ll need to impress is yourself.

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4. Believe in your potential.

I fully expect my life to be happy and rewarding.

Not only is worrying a big waste of energy, it also sends a clear message to your subconscious about your expectations in life. Instead of worrying about things that might never happen, focus your attention and efforts on making the things you want your reality.

5. Silence your inner critic.

I only welcome thoughts that support and encourage me.

The way you speak to yourself has a big bearing on how you feel about yourself; if you speak to yourself in a harsh, critical or belittling way, your confidence will whither. You are the guardian of your self-esteem and you should never speak to yourself more harshly than you would to a small child.

6. Challenge yourself.

I am brave and willing to step outside of my comfort zone

Confidence and self-belief are like muscles; you need to exercise them if you want to grow stronger. When you challenge yourself, you are telling your subconscious that you believe in yourself and that you are willing to back yourself in new circumstances and situations.

7. Stop making excuses.

I take full responsibility for who I am and the life I lead.

If you aren’t living your best life, you need to examine not only the things that are getting in your way, but also the reasons you’re letting them. When you stop making excuses and start taking responsibility, you’re able to enjoy the things that are great about your life while harboring no illusions about what you need to change if you are to enjoy everything else.

8. Treat yourself with love and respect.

I always treat myself with love and respect.

When you love yourself, you treat yourself with as much love and respect as you would your closest friend, be understanding and forgiving of your failings and, above all, be as kind to yourself as you are to the other important people in your life.


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Paralyzed By Doubt? 5 Ways To Live A Life You Love

BY REBECCA BUTLER     AUGUST 1, 2014 

Fear and doubt are sneaky. They’re forms of energy constantly attempting to capture your attention. The thing is, what we focus on is what we grow. So if you want to change your environment, your career, your relationship, your approach to abundance — if you’re looking to transcend your current circumstances and rise to the next level — here are a few tips to help you do so.

1. Practice radical belief.

Along this path of life, we often encounter challenges and hardships. We’re meant to experience contrast. Contrast helps us determine our preferences. Without it, we would be lost. But often, instead of using contrast as inspiration, we attach things to it. We make decisions because of our experiences and decide that we aren’t worthy of our dreams or that we aren’t capable of them.

This is absolute fiction. If we enhance our vibrational way of being to be in line with our dreams, anything is possible. Absolutely anything. Believe.

2. Make a sincere effort in everything you do.

Sometimes when we think of the scope of our dreams, they can be intimidating. We get so caught up in the size of the end result that we become paralyzed about what to do today. The trick lies in baby steps. Don’t let fear hold you back. Don’t fall prey to procrastination or being too scattered to be productive.

A great rule of thumb is to ask for help from someone when you feel truly stuck. Reach out for inspiration. Do a Google search. Scour this amazing website (MBG) or listen to Hay House radio. You never know where your next spark might lurk. But you have to try to find it. Try, fear of failure be damned.

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3. Be true to yourself.

Take time every day to fine tune the intentions behind your dreams. Stay true to them. If you cultivate your intentions with joy and ease, you will easily fall back on them in those moments when fear and doubt knock on your spiritual door. Lean in to the joy of pure intentions. They are the guideposts to meaningful, lasting and powerful change.

4. Listen to internal guidance, and make some quiet time so you can hear it.

You have an internal guidance system in the form of your emotions. With a daily practice of meditation, you will feel these emotions with clarity. Those emotions help us to determine if we are on the right track or not. If something feels wrong, negative, dark, we need to readjust our words, thoughts or actions. If something feels right, good, light, fulfilling, we are on the right path.

It sounds simple but the noise inside sometimes will prevent us from embracing this with simplicity. That’s where meditation comes in.

5. Take risks to be truly free.

Risks can be frightening and exhilarating at the same time. They show that we are in tune with the natural flow of life and source energy. Take risks to be a part of the free flowing universal life energy all around you all the time.

Above all else, enjoy the journey!